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THE ALPHA LIFESTYLE

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Our decisions, our beliefs, culture, and most importantly our actions are what makeup whatever lifestyle we live. However, the Alpha Lifestyle sits on the top of the hierarchy just as the one who lives it. What is the Alpha Lifestyle? This is a lifestyle of dominance and zero compromises. The Alpha Lifestyle ensures that one is in control of major events and happenings of one's life. You live in a way that puts you in a position that you are never out of options, unprepared, nor are you ever out of the fight.  This is is however not achieved by being born under the lucky star or by sitting around waiting for things to happen for you. Rather, by deliberate and calculated decisions making, proper planning, and flawless execution. Living an Alpha Lifestyle means you are not sitting in the backseat of your life without being actively involved in making decisions that directly affect your life. Instead, you're in charge of the wheels and responsible for every tilts and turn. This ca...

HOW TO MANAGE SUICIDAL THOUGHTS

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Five ways to deal with Suicidal thoughts . It's so cold out here, stepping out alone might freeze you to the bones. It sometimes feels like the pain would never stop. The feeling of hopelessness hijacks your thoughts, driving you insane. The regrets outweigh the accolades, the disappointments, the rejection, and betrayals battle for supremacy and you are left to watch yourself wallow in shame and self-pity. The anxiety of what other misfortune tomorrow holds clouds every bit of gratitude you could possibly have for today. You seem alone, it appears so but the truth is, you're not. The fact is, most people experience thoughts of suicide at some point in their lives, it's not just you. Feeling suicidal does not make you weak, weird, crazy, or broken. It only signifies that the pain and sadness you are feeling at the moment is beyond what you can cope with. To feel suicidal is totally normal but to succumb to the overwhelmingness is the crime in it.   You are stronger than it ...

DIVERSIFYING YOUR INCOME.

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It is no longer news that anyone who desires financial independence must have multiple streams of income. No one can afford to rely solely on a source of income because when that source fails like they often do, the budget and plans for that month go down the drain.  No matter how long you have worked in a firm or how highly placed you are, losing your job is still a possibility, one that should be taken with utmost seriousness. What happens when the unthinkable happens? You lose your job for whatever reason,  maybe due to a market downturn, or pandemic like the case of COVID 19, or just because you refused to sleep with your new boss. What happens? Will your kids get driven out of school or you have a contingency plan in place to keep you on your feet until you can run again. It is a laughable idea for anyone to keep all his eggs in the Civil Service basket and we all know why. I know of a state in my favourite black country that owes its workers eight months salary. It sadde...