HOW TO START A CONVERSATION WITH A GIRL

Five ways to start a conversation with a girl

Starting a conversation can be as hard as sliding up a slope if you do not know the right words to say. It takes confidence and courage to walk up to a beautiful lady but then when you finally have her audience what are you going to say?

Here are five ways to break the ice and have a meaningful conversation with that girl without having to look like a fool when you stammer and bite your fingers in front of her.

1. Use the Environment:

You don't need a savvy or badass pick-up line to be able to talk to a girl. Just simply use your surrounding, what you have around you to start the conversation.

For example, you met her in a restaurant, you can simply start by saying, "Excuse me, I'm struggling a bit with my choice, do you know if their salad is cool here?" That's not too forward and very polite. And whatever answer she gives you, you can introduce yourself from there. 

2. Point out what you have in common.

A girl you are into you must have something in common that draws her to you, lead with that. Perhaps, you can't point that out, just look for an obvious common interest.

For example, you met her at a party you were both be invited to. You can say something as simple as, "So you know Joe, the host?" Simple. You just broke the ice. She will be like, "Yes", then you can start to talk about how you met Joe and on and on.

3. Eye contact and Body language:

Sometimes, silence speaks the loudest and the strongest messages can be sent without saying a word. Humans, women especially have this unique capacity to make micro-judgment about others and what they represent just by watching the body language and by eye contact.

Have an open body language of friendliness and confidence, it makes you noticeable and stands you out.

Lock eyes with her occasionally, don't look away or panic when she stares back. Control these as you don't want to do it too much so you don't look like a freak. But pass friendly messages with your eyes. 

Your styles must be of class. Make sure you are well. It's easy to notice the best-dressed dude in the room without having to say too much.

4. Compliment Her:

Women mostly enjoy flattery and this approach works a lot of time for good-looking and confident men. Just walk up to her and say something like, "Hi, didn't mean to be a bother, but I was just walking by and I thought you were cute, so just wanted to say it, I'm Gbolahan."

That's a simple and honest pick-up line. But however, you have to do this with enough confidence and your style must be class, else she might just walk past you probably even hiss.

5. Ask a simple question.

This can even be a question you already have an answer to, like, "Hey, do you know when the show starts?", "Hey, do you know where the library at?, "Hi, do you know the closest restaurant around here?"

These are simple questions that, that would elicit a response from her and you can kick on from them. If you ask politely without any form of aggression or business, most girls love to be helpful, so you can be sure of a response if you do it right.

Whatever you do, make sure you do not lose yourself, don't poster or put any girl under pressure be open to rejection, and walk away if she doesn't feel comfortable. Don't push it, you can try another day or try with another chick.